From one revently laid-off overthinker to another: I enjoyed your train of thoughts. Thank you for sharing!
All of the constant thinking is the main reason I stay away from exlusive self-employment. I want to start my own thing, but with my 9-5 safety net underneath my feet. I guess this is the most my strained brain can take right now.
Anyway, wishing you the best and hope your stream of orders stays solid.
Whatever works for you is best. I am on the other side.
5am: Gym
6:30-7:30 am: Clean up, prep
7:30-8:30 am: Work/write/productivity time
8:30 am: daughter to school
5:15-8:30 pm: start on dinner, kid time, dinner, kids to bed
9 pm: like a zombie on the couch or probably falling asleep to TV
So that space in between is where I get consulting work done. Not a huge amount of time (or brain power) for me to do side project stuff at night. Morning is pretty well locked in at this point.
Have always been a morning guy. When I was ages 25-35 (roughly) I was working much later on average.
These days it's possible but I just don't have that same motivation to burn the midnight oil instead of getting enough sleep to stick to my morning work out.
Sounds like you’re off to a great start Chris. I also started my own business after a layoff but also made a career transition and it was a rocky beginning.
The consulting life can be super rewarding and not the least for the flexibility you have. Enjoy your kids while they’re little. You’re in a great space.
The weirdest feeling is where I feel like someone thinks I'm making the wrong decision if I tell them I am going to chase consulting rather than take a full time job!
From one revently laid-off overthinker to another: I enjoyed your train of thoughts. Thank you for sharing!
All of the constant thinking is the main reason I stay away from exlusive self-employment. I want to start my own thing, but with my 9-5 safety net underneath my feet. I guess this is the most my strained brain can take right now.
Anyway, wishing you the best and hope your stream of orders stays solid.
The challenge for me is, ok, I do 9-5. And then side gig, when, 8-11? Before 9?
Some people are great at using those hours. My morning is filled with fitness and prepping for the day. And then at night I fall asleep so fast!
Add children to the equation, and you get a perfect storm. 😁
My rough daily schedule:
8:00 am - 8:30 am: Bring my daughter to kindergarden
8:30 am - 4:45 pm: Main job. I use short breaks to exercise (some calistenics)
5 pm - 9:30 pm: Dinner, playtime with my kids, getting them to sleep (yes, it actually takes that long to get ours to sleep. Somtimes longer)
09:30 pm - 10:30 pm: Substack time
10:30 pm - 11:30 pm: Dishes + getting ready to sleep.
And repeat thw whole thing. But well, we still have the weekend. 😁
Not a very healthy daily schedule, I know. But I guess that's quite normal with two little kids. As they grow, I will regain some more time.
Whatever works for you is best. I am on the other side.
5am: Gym
6:30-7:30 am: Clean up, prep
7:30-8:30 am: Work/write/productivity time
8:30 am: daughter to school
5:15-8:30 pm: start on dinner, kid time, dinner, kids to bed
9 pm: like a zombie on the couch or probably falling asleep to TV
So that space in between is where I get consulting work done. Not a huge amount of time (or brain power) for me to do side project stuff at night. Morning is pretty well locked in at this point.
True, really depends on the person. I was never really productive in the mornings, so I shift more stuff into the evening or night.
Makes sense!
Have always been a morning guy. When I was ages 25-35 (roughly) I was working much later on average.
These days it's possible but I just don't have that same motivation to burn the midnight oil instead of getting enough sleep to stick to my morning work out.
Sounds like you’re off to a great start Chris. I also started my own business after a layoff but also made a career transition and it was a rocky beginning.
The consulting life can be super rewarding and not the least for the flexibility you have. Enjoy your kids while they’re little. You’re in a great space.
Thanks for those kind words!
The weirdest feeling is where I feel like someone thinks I'm making the wrong decision if I tell them I am going to chase consulting rather than take a full time job!
You’re taking to employed folks. Consulting is a different mindset.
Totally. I've heard so many people say "it's going to be hard" but I've never done anything that rewarding that was ... easy?
Oh it’s hard. It’s the biggest personal development course you’ll ever take I once heard a coach say.